A few days after fathering his latest baby, politician Chilufya Tayali, has urged men to be part of the aftermath of their sexual encounters – childbirth and parenting.
Tayali was a lot graphic in his counsel to men stating the seven to 15 minutes of pleasure should never end at “pumping liquid in women and taking off.”
“Please think twice before you lure a woman into stripping. If you have to go that route, please make sure you have time and attention for her, otherwise, you are better off going for self-help,” Tayali writes.
IT’S SUPPOSED TO BE A SHARED RESPONSIBILITY, NOT JUST THE MOTHER
Gentlemen, we should not just end up on pumping that production liquid in women and take off. The aftermath of that 7 to 15 minutes passion, or longer to those who are experienced, can be very difficult for a woman and the baby.
Please think twice before you lure a woman into stripping. If you have to go that route, please make sure you have time and attention for her, otherwise, you are better off going for self-help.
I really sympathise with women who are left to go through pregnancies and looking after babies or children without a man who was there in making them.
My wife and I sleeping schedules have changed since Kiya was born. I take an early sleep while my wife takes care of the baby. After midnight it’s my responsibility to stay awake while my wife takes a rest.
I prefer to be in the living room because my wife finds it difficult to sleep with a light on. She also pays too much attention to the little sounds from the baby, so I just cut her off for her to sleep well.
TAYALI THE MARRIED MAN – FAMILIES MUST COME FIRST!